In one word I want consistency
So when a dear friend of mine asked me : ‘ What Do you want In a romantic relationship? ‘ I stayed quiet for a while trying to put all my thoughts together and then I said with a smile and glowing eyes : " In love I want simplicity , authenticity and emotional safety. I don’t want to be put on a pedestal nor to be idealized , I want to be accepted for who I am_imperfect ,boring sometimes ,wild , over emotional and passionate . I don't want to be told that I am beautiful nor 'sexy' , I want to feel respected , valued and appreciated . I don’t want a fairy tale nor a super hero , I want to fight and argue and communicate with a man who sees me as an equal partner . I don’t want love speeches but I want to be told that I am enough and worthy even if I am flawed . I don’t really want love letters nor poems , I want patience, compassion and someone who cares . I don’t want fancy dates nor gifts , I want a red rose from a wh...