~ The dynamic of life

I reckon that the world is split into those who believe " If I want it to be than I will make it be "and those who believe "If it's meant to be it is going to be ". 

I think that the first ones dwell on consistency,  hard working , trying to solve their problems and find explanations for their failures to avoid  any further dramatic events : they are those who live in the present moment and they are those who will not feel ashamed to cry in front of the crowds because they know that as long as theyr are getting their ass kicked they are still fighting and they are still living,  while the others are stuck in their suspicions, looking for a miracle to happen , waiting for " the right timing " _which is nothing but an illusion because NOW is always the right timing_ and making someone else accountable for their mistakes instead of facing the real problems , they are those who are indifferent to all external catalysers and who would refuse to question the evolution of their lives as for their life is nothing but a consequence of events that are "meant to be" .

The first ones would accept defeat and would not care if they fail as long as they have explanations and evidences,  the second ones would probably never try in the first place _because they are the crowds that watch the caravan of life while it passes _ and when something do not work they will start to Blame and shame their surroundings. 

But isn't life a long way towards peace that is never secure and where nothing is garanteed no matter how much to calculate it . As Virginia Woolf said :" You can not find peace by avoiding life " .

Sometimes I take a step back and I just watch people and I noticed that people who believe in themself _ as a unique individual with a great talent without excluding the uniqueness of the other _ will make their life better , spreading positivity and seeing the light even in the darkness , on the other hand  those  who are unable to accept that a human being is always into a changing state , would find a problem for every solution and  would judge everyone who is still trying against all odds . 

I think it is the dynamic of life ; some are doers, some are watchers,  some see their life as an artistic masterpiece that needs a constant retouching ,  some see it as a script to be followed , some grow from their mistakes,  some are stuck in their fantasy of perfection .

And as the modern world became a jungle,  this dynamic is a sort of symbiosis:  if you don't fight for what you believe in and if you don't listen to your survival instinct you would get eliminated.

So into which category would you classify yourself ?